I’m very sorry you are experiencing this. I hope someone else is there to help you both out.
I can not even mop or sweep my floor. All my son does sit’s or or lays in his room watches TV or plays games on his TV. When he does mop the floor it takes him all day. I miss my late son, but he passed away on September 1, 2012. He used to get seizures, but he was a great help to me.