I grew up in the Wisconsin Lutheran Church synod. It was Bible based. The pastor was a man, the church council members were men and the women who were active in church affairs were chaste ladies, married or waiting to be married.
The marriages blessed in church were M/W. We kids not confirmed were in Sunday school while mom and Dad were up in church. I knew Jesus loved me and we said grace before meals. I knew not to talk to strangers and I didn’t know what “queers” did during sex until later when someone in college explained it to me.
I may have been sheltered and naive but I was happy.
Missouri synod member here... My church has made it very clear that they will never adopt this sinful behavior...
It’s time for the conservative synods to break from this heresy officially...