I say the same to people in person who will listen. It was a very few boisterous citizens who went a bit too far. What they did vs what demonrats/Antifa/blm did is comparing you kid writing on the wall with a crayon vs them playing with matches and burning down your house because you won’t let them watch cartoons.
The Dems also seem to have forgotten their storming of the Senate during the Kavanaugh hearings, with loonies wearing vagina hats shoving their way into the building and attacking GOP Senators. Interestingly, a couple of hundred people had to be arrested at that one, something that the Dems have dropped down the Memory Hole.