What an @ss.
That grandfather needs to lose his grandpa license. My granddaughter had a spontaneous premature delivery at 21 weeks and was told there was no hope to save my great grandson. We were able to hold him and tell him how much we loved him before he died in her arms. Two years later and pregnant again and watched so close the new one tried the same thing but this time they were ready. Three months in the hospital she delivered a preemie but old enough to make it. My newest great grandson will be a year old this month and I always give my grandaughter a baby gift on my first great grandsons birthday and I always include him in my list of great grandkids which happily is up to six now.
While that is probably the most blatant example, there seems to be in my Catholic friends an underlying “what did I do to deserve God’s rath”.