I had 3 miscarriages. I just recommend not getting excited about a pregnancy until you see a heartbeat on the ultrasound.
Once there’s a heartbeat, the chance of loss is small.
I think it’s good for people around to know if you are pregnant. You don’t feel great. Then you do need time to get over a miscarriage. Homormonally it’s a roller coaster.
This became a tear jerker of a thread!!
I am sorry for your losses.
I wonder how many women will have mentioned their miscarriage by the end of the thread.
I thought it was so rare!!
My mom had one right before me.
I guess I wouldn’t be here if she had the one prior.
But she was very sad, I’ve been told.
My friend’s wife had to CARRY the baby for a few weeks DEAD inside her!!!!
I forget the reason.
Good grief.
Prayers out to all who have lost a child.
Agree. After my first miscarriage, I tried really hard to not acknowledge the baby early. It was hard, but I was in self-preservation mode. I had 4 total. 5 if you count losing one fraternal twin at 6 weeks and the other at 11 weeks. Maybe mine didn’t affect me as much, as my losses were all in the first trimester. Or maybe it’s because I’m old and we were brought up to keep our own counsel much closer, than today’s women seem to do. But I used my energy to focus on the little boy that I was able to have.....my first pregnancy.
I lost one at 15 weeks. Everything was going good and then it wasn’t.