See Post #29, and then do a search on some typical rap lyrics these days. There is a serious streak of misogyny among many black males these days when it comes to women, and I think it can be attributed to the fact that they find the stunted personalities of the women in their lives to be completely repulsive.
Think of what it must be like to grow up as a black male in a household where your mother (and I use that term loosely) has 5+ children by 3-5 different men ... and none of those men have any positive influence in your life.