... He has no need to do what you want.
That is quite true, it’s just that, working in a hospital for 33+ years, one sees things differently. I’ve seen much too much suffering and death not to intimately aware of its path. Several of my friends are oncologists, and we often talk quietly late into the evening.
People want to cover their ears and eyes and hearts to the reality.
I get it.
But expect more posts like that if you attempt to discuss the reality
That said, his microphone could be the added incentive for his mind, body, and soul to fight a little harder.
That microphone is his life’s work.
Remember, the ones you see are a subset. The ones that do well are not represented in your sample.