A woman I know told the story of how, when her maternity leave for her youngest had ended and she was headed back to work, her 3(?)-year-old screamed and wet his pants. She told it for laughs ... my heart broke for that boy. He didn't want their big house in the burbs - he wanted his mother.
That she told that story because she thought it was funny speaks volumes about her priorities. That poor little boy.
That is so sad; it is a lie they can “have it all”. What part of that includes having strangers raise your children?
Motherhood is a very demanding full-time profession, and the results are clear to see when it is treated as anything less. I pity people who are unable to raise their own children; thankfully we had extended family that could help.