If kids are not in the agenda, why get married?
And if kids are on the agenda, it’s best to have them young. For women, that translates as “WELL before 40, preferably before 30.”
I could relate stories of some crew that got married, had kids and it worked out okay for them, some I know were just miserable since they had to give up their career. I guess it’s how one feels; we’re all individuals with our own hopes and dreams and some that don’t fit the scenario to some people.