I attended a HS very similar to the schools in question in this case in the 80’s and did quite a bit of drinking in college too. I’m not particularly proud of it but it is what it is.
I only blacked out once and it was after drinking Jagermeister, which I never did again.
The myth of the “black out drunk” is just silly—passed out maybe, but blacked out, no. And I attended a LOT of frat parties. It wasn’t a rapey era. We just didn’t see things that way.
I can’t imagine that this woman is THAT traumatized by what amounts to nothing but a clumsy pass, no matter who might have done it. And I don’t believe it was BK who did it!
“And I attended a LOT of frat parties. “
I belong to one of the wildest yet influential frat at Stanford. There was NOT one time I blacked out. That doesn’t exist and saw no one, who drank more than I did do that. And this rapey nonsense: please. My batch mates maybe be drunkards but they know when you are getting the rest of the frat in trouble.