Ignore Ryan O'Neal
My wife for a long time had to keep reminding me that “You say you’re sorry, but then you don’t change! Just saying sorry over and over again doesn’t cut it!”
One of my favorite videos is the marriage counselor (a Christian) that does seminars and is pretty funny. But - I think he does a good job pointing out the differences between men and women, and how to accept and deal with them.
The REALLY good one is where he talks about Men’s brains vs. Women’s brains. I think that it is pretty accurate.
Mark Gungor:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3XjUFYxSxDk
Only somebody over 60 would have a clue as to the movie you're referencing.