Trump's verbal support this past year, of active-duty military and veterans, has been superb, as have his actions backing up those words. He should keep up with that course of action (as I'm sure he will) and focus on rebuilding from Obama's damage to the military.
My bona fides? Navy veteran (was in service during the final years of the Cold War), son of a 17-year Air Force veteran.
God bless you, sir, and your son. Those of us with military service have learned what a PITA and waste of time/money are parades, formations, marching, etc., except for boot training and movement of dismounted troops from point A to point B. Time & budget taken from training, operations, maintenance, and from families and liberty/leave.