You must prioritize. There are a lot of good people who are leading busy lives, working hard, helping people. They believe the media. They don’t have the time or inclination and sometimes not quite the IQ to synthesize a ton of info flying around and pick out the truth using common sense.
I believe my relationship with good family members and friends is more important than them knowing everything I know. So I don’t talk politics with them. There are plenty of other things to discuss. I love plenty of gullible people. I’m ok with that. I’m no crusader, though if pressed for a serious political discussion, I will come out of the closet (unless it’s with the families from my children’s schools because I don’t want to hurt them socially).
Good answer. I agree with everything you wrote.
I have read all the advice and I think I just need to talk with her a bit more and I need to put in the effort. The breaking point was at where people assumed she is going to meet my arguments with lies, but since I know she doesn’t lie then I know there is still hope for her.