[AnotherUnixGeek]

The boy isn’t “forever scarred”.
News Flash; boys and girls are different.

They aren't that different. My first sexual encounter was with a girl my age when we were both in high school. I remember it and her fondly. I doubt I'd fondly remember a first sexual encounter with some disturbed middle-aged woman and I doubt most guys who actually had such a first encounter would either.

[ladyjane]

disturbed middle-aged woman

You think 32 is middle-aged? How old are you?

Go to bed. It's past your bedtime.

[Bonemaker]

“I doubt I’d fondly remember a first sexual encounter with some disturbed middle-aged woman and I doubt most guys who actually had such a first encounter would.”

What is this thing “sexual encounter” of which you speak?