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Foster Care Shouldn't Be a Profit Center for Families
newsmax ^ | Nov 25, 2017 | Michael Reagan

Posted on 11/25/2017 1:19:47 PM PST by Oshkalaboomboom

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To: Oshkalaboomboom

foster care takes the place of the institutions that the leftists were so keen to close in the seventies. The foster homes are being paid, like the institutions were paid to keep the children for the state. Of course they should be paid.

People do not take in fosters out of the goodness of their hearts, at least not the state fosters.


21 posted on 11/25/2017 2:47:17 PM PST by Chickensoup (Leftists today are speaking as if they plan to commence to commit genocide against conservatives.)
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To: Oshkalaboomboom
It's the unwritten 13th amendment loophole.

What do you call owning someone for profit?

22 posted on 11/25/2017 2:52:01 PM PST by rawcatslyentist
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To: TheNext

Are you off your meds?

I’m supposed to put a dowm payment of 30 % for six houses, one for each of my children?

Oh wait’ you didn’t know that yet presume to preach to me...

How many houses did you buy for your multiple children ?


23 posted on 11/25/2017 3:00:23 PM PST by Popman (My sin was great, Your love was greater  What could separate us now…)
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To: Reddy

That could be.


24 posted on 11/25/2017 3:05:01 PM PST by Beagle8U (Wake up and smell the Covfef)
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To: Chickensoup

You need to make some new acquaintances. There are goodhearted people. God is good and He shares His goodness!


25 posted on 11/25/2017 3:09:36 PM PST by KDF48 (Redeemed by Christ.)
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To: Oshkalaboomboom

Only person I know who did foster care did it for the funds. He is and was a Dick head. Now was the kids better off. I don’t know. I’m not in the house.


26 posted on 11/25/2017 3:26:14 PM PST by wgmalabama
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To: TheNext

Nice if you can afford to buy your children homes! My 18 year old has the choice. Go to college and live rent free or pay rent. She wants to work and forgo school so she is paying rent. About 1/8th of what an apartment would cost, and I’m putting the cash in a secret savings account for her which she doesn’t know about. But she says she wants to be an adult and do as she pleases. I’m probably being too lenient on her.


27 posted on 11/25/2017 4:09:47 PM PST by Thidwick (If a moose can figure it out, why can't a liberal?)
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To: manc

Wow, that just wasn’t right. I’m so sorry that you went through that.


28 posted on 11/25/2017 4:36:51 PM PST by ViLaLuz (2 Chronicles 7:14)
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To: JohnyBoy

“Personally, I think orphanages run by religious institutions worked better.”

My gut feeling is to agree, although I have no data to support this. Clearly, neither is ideal. I think we all need to understand how important the first several years of life are in defining a child’s life, and what demons they will have to deal with as adults. It’s difficult to get past abuse, neglect, and the absence of love. Not impossible, but difficult. Family is so very important, but we’ve downplayed this as a society, to great detriment and risk.


29 posted on 11/25/2017 4:45:26 PM PST by neverevergiveup
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To: TheNext; Popman

Are you nuts? Visiting here from the DUmp??? Popman is teaching his kids the value of hard work and discipline. I’m surprised any FReeper would have a problem with that.


30 posted on 11/25/2017 4:56:55 PM PST by TXBlair (We will not forget Benghazi.)
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To: TXBlair

My niece adopted a foster daughter, her 1st name is the same as my niece’s last name. They gave her the option of keeping her former name, picking a new one or taking their last name and she chose theirs.

A friend got a foster son when he was 8. The poor child had been profoundly abused and was always terrified of making a mistake. Sadly, it took 5 years for them to get the go ahead to adopt him and his first request was to get baptized, they came straight from the courthouse. He’s 16 now and a great kid.

My other niece just adopted an 18 Mo. that they have had since he was an infant.


31 posted on 11/25/2017 5:15:13 PM PST by tiki
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To: Oshkalaboomboom

When I was 4 & 1/2 and my sister was two years younger, we lived with foster parents for about 6 months. ‘Aunt Teeny’ and ‘Uncle Arthur’ on a farm in Arkansas. They also cared for another little girl, Jeannie.

They were kind, we had an old tractor tire sandbox and Uncle Arthur would let me stand behind him, holding onto his shoulders while he drove the tractor. Our Mom would visit on weekends.

My sister & I also lived with an uncle & aunt for most of a year once and with our grandmother several times. We knew that we were loved by family, foster family and our Mom. And our Dad, even though he drank asd was not around too much.

We’ve also had friends who have taken foster kids into their homes. Like raising your own kids, it can be real work. It can also be greatly satisfying or heartbreaking.

“Like a box of chocolates...”


32 posted on 11/25/2017 5:32:30 PM PST by BwanaNdege ("The church ... is not the master or the servant of the state, but the conscience" - Luther)
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To: Beagle8U

That sounds horrible.


33 posted on 11/25/2017 5:36:33 PM PST by DouglasKC
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To: TXBlair

He is teaching his kids to pursue slavery, likely learned from his parents.


34 posted on 11/25/2017 5:40:59 PM PST by TheNext (DEPORT ISLAM RETROACTIVELY)
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To: Thidwick

Ah but you presented your daughter with a lousy false dilemma. Beat yourself up a bit because all parents make the mistake.

If a parent is willing to let their child to live rent free for college, the 3rd OPTION is the best of the three. Live rent free and save for a house down payment. The rule though is Parents cannot touch any of the money because everybody wants to spend other people’s money, especially on junk. That error makes your child a slave. But the money ONLY goes for down and you crimp until achieved. A drug addict, she fails. Be supportive.

But parents and kids love to spend their kid’s money on stupid stuff like cars or vacations. Those are bad debt. A mortgage down, 20% plus is good debt. Then it is a race against inflation, but a good race.

She wants to experience the false freedom as a renter. Tell her as an owner, it is real adult freedom. Basic algebra skills help, Annual Mort Rate math.

With the house, she can rent to a friend. That is the adult way. And keep your secret money separate, because if she earns 15% and you have 15% down, that is team work. That is love.

She can then rent to that othef FReeper’s (Popman) kids, rent debters.

But save you must UNTIL the monthly home payment is STABLE.
Then she does not need any college debt. A future paid off house she can work anyplace.


35 posted on 11/25/2017 5:41:24 PM PST by TheNext (DEPORT ISLAM RETROACTIVELY)
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To: Beagle8U
#14: "For a teenage boy/man such as myself, it was a smorgasbord of mostly teenage sluts that were changed regularly."

LOL. Don't take this the wrong way, but if they were teenage sluts, what would that make you?
 

36 posted on 11/25/2017 5:42:18 PM PST by Governor Dinwiddie (Happy Thanksgiving weekend!)
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To: tiki

I love good foster/adoption stories like the ones you mentioned! It is amazing what difference a loving home can make. Most of these kids are too young to know just how fortunate they are to have been adopted, but they’ll surely understand some day (and your friend’s 16-year-old probably already does!).


37 posted on 11/25/2017 5:43:25 PM PST by TXBlair (We will not forget Benghazi.)
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To: Oshkalaboomboom
I was a foster parent a decade ago. Even though it involved close family we had to become certified foster parents, open our house to unannounced visits, plan our life around the parents, were harassed, threatened, and eventually made a scapegoat for state incompetence. We did draw a check roughly $300 per child. We were living on our disability checks and the FP checks were over a year delayed.

We had to attend classes. A huge percentage of foster parents today are kinship foster parents meaning aunt, uncle, adult sibling, or grandparents. Some were there as young couples looking to adopt. Never become a FP to adopt. They won't allow it.

Reagan is naive the real abusers of the foster parent program are the kids birth parents in many cases. The kids usually taken for abuse etc will likely see foster homes many of them for years to come while the parents Party On. The parents play the system with very Liberal LCSW's in the state children's services agencies placing the mother's right to go have fun over that of the permanent stability of the children. BTW once a child is adopted all state help ends. But very, very, few are allowed to be adopted because states refuse to terminate parental rights. A child age 10 stands a good chance of timing out meaning turning 18 in foster care.

A kinship foster parent is the hardest because the state expects/demands you make special allowances for the parents and that even can reach the point of enabling abuse. Many kinship FP's leave the program due to threats, harassment, non cooperation, and flat out high stress.

38 posted on 11/25/2017 5:47:26 PM PST by cva66snipe ((Two Choices left for U.S. One Nation Under GOD or One Nation Under Judgment? Which one say ye?))
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To: neverevergiveup
Family is so very important, but we’ve downplayed this as a society, to great detriment and risk.

Yeah, but women's right have come so far!

All you need to make women equal is a nanny state to institute taxpayer funded social programs, and a state security apparatus, to take the place of husbands!

39 posted on 11/25/2017 5:54:20 PM PST by papertyger
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To: Thidwick

Another positive twist is since your child is young, put all her earned money in a small cap fund from any of the few big stock firms.

Small cap = 20 years @ 11%
Large cap = 15 years @ 7.5%

The signed contract is the fund is ONLY for retirement or a house. No other options.

If she marrys a rich guy with a house already it is her retirement. Otherwise it is house down payment.

These assume you have a good trust relationship with your child. But these are the MAXIMUM earning potential. 15 years eg is the safe period, guarenteed money, shy of major nuclear war.

Rich dad or Poor dad.


40 posted on 11/25/2017 6:05:02 PM PST by TheNext (DEPORT ISLAM RETROACTIVELY)
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