Victim or not, you’ve made an over the top outrageous statement.
Did you also wait years before claiming that man sexually harassed you? What did he do? Tell you that you looked nice that day?
No, I did not wait....I settled it on the spot.
When a VP made a salacious remark at a corporate meeting about he and I going to a backroom to get documents.....I turned to the group and said: “I wonder what makes him think he’s got what it takes.”
He NEVER made a remark about me, again.