Agreed 100% on the assimilation aspect. That is what I did. Married a US born spouse, became skilled in golf, learned intricacies of American sports, American football being my favorite, learned to speak fluent English, and keep interest in everything American, including politics. Arrived at age 20, worked to acquire master’s degree at a large American university, and still here after 50+ years.
I tell anyone who disparages America that they should go back to their home country if it is better than here.
I wish more would do as you’ve done. A great story and I’m sure you’re a great addition to the country.