“I don’t get it either. I have an opinion though.”
If you are a man, you are capable of understanding the harm it does. Which is not to say that every man necessarily gets this, but in 66 years I have never run across a woman who does.
I knew a lesbian who said they are disgusted by gay men and what they do to one another. Any other reaction by lesbians is purely political.
I hear it’s a real pain in the ass.