“I can’t understand what this person is writing about. What is she saying?”
This woman is upset that no matter how hard she looks she cannot find a man who doesnt hate women. Her standards are simply so high that no man in the world can meet them. I think this indicates a paranoid mentality.
What she is also saying is that she has tried to raise her sons so that THEY could meet her standards but has failed. By saying her sons are not “safe” she means that given the opportunity they would take sexual advantage of a helpless woman. In other words they would be rapists. IMO her standard for a “safe” man is one who has had his male organ removed or preferably never had one to begin with.
I one time dated a woman like this twenty years ago. Thought she had two prior divorces (turned out to be three I found out later on). She got paranoid, and did an amateur background check on the internet, and found someone with a similar name who was tied to Aryan Nation. Aha! She found something! So that was the dark secret I was allegedly hiding! And she unleashed her full man hating fury. Fortunately I was no where near marrying the psycho witch.
Later she found another mark, married him, and destroyed him through divorce number 4.