Fun for me fun has never involved looking like a deranged schizophrenic nor has it ever involved exposing myself to some of the ugliest and most disgusting communicable diseases known to medical science.
Gay used to mean happy and carefree. Faggies are anything but.
They are in your face demanding acceptance and approval, though.
Different strokes for different folks, does everybody have the same idea of fun? Some like watching golf. Some like skiing. Some like playing poker. Some like charity work.