I don’t disagree with you. But that’s not really the point. To stick with your example, if one is an avid golfer, and the other insists that the clubs be put away forever ... one has a problem. To further stick with the example, a reasonable arrangement might be for the golfer to dial it back while the kids are really small, then as they get bigger teach them to golf. Everybody wins.
Yes, well that’s precisely what I was saying too. So we agree!