I agree with your take on it.
It’s too bad there isn’t more push back on this sort of thing.
This is the number one reason I don’t want homosexuals on k-12th grade schools, counseling.
They read into every action by kids, and start labeling.
Let kids be kids. Some guys are more effeminate than others, but that isn’t a fail-safe indication they are homosexuals.
Tom-boy girls aren’t homosexuals. Some girls love to play sports and tinker. Generally these are very bright women, and excellent potential mates for men.
You get the gender “patrol” latched onto these kids, and they’ll work their magic. First they get them confused, and then they pounce.
“Tom-boy girls aren’t homosexuals. Some girls love to play sports and tinker. Generally these are very bright women, and excellent potential mates for men.”
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You just described one of my daughters,a superb natural athlete and now still married to a great guy and the mother of three young adults.