Dated a girl many years ago (good athlete and competitor) who played league softball. Told me there were gay teams and straight teams, because straight girls couldn't just play without the drama that enswirls the homosexual community.
It's a different world - and not one for normal heterosexuals.
My father used to umpire Canadian softball championships, including—ahem—ladies’ tournaments. Every tournament, without exception, had some sort of lesbian relationship drama, be it lovers’ quarrels, wild parties in the motels, and so on. Pretty ugly stuff, especially the women.