[IrishBrigade]

What I have seen several times is that once women are in a committed relationship, they tend to let themselves go.

this is normal...however,a husband who respects his wife will not complain that what he once saw is not what he now sees, because that goes both ways...

[VanDeKoik]

"What I have seen several times is that once women are in a committed relationship, they tend to let themselves go.

this is normal...however,a husband who respects his wife will not complain that what he once saw is not what he now sees, because that goes both ways..."

And THIS is precisely why men are getting sick of this shtick.

She goes into marriage with no responsibilities or expectation. She can "let herself go", but he sure cant slack off on being the "provider" and "protector".

She can "get headaches" for the next 30 years, but he sure as heck cant say anything that may make her "cry" or she is out of there with half of his money + alimony thanks to no-fault.

She can nag him to hell and gone, but he better make sure he doesn't leave the toilet seat up.

Men have nothing to gain from marriage anymore, but are supposed to "respect" all the the stuff she can get away with because the feminist left and the equally female-worshiping right have her covered from the courthouse to the church.