My homeschooled son asked a few of girls out on a date for dinner and a film. Most did not know how to respond.
He now tells them he will meet them for coffee at the local coffee shop. It brings it to their level. No pressure. He then decides whether to invite them to next plan to do something with him, like snowmobile, or catch a film. He discovered he is dealing with women who only manage in packs. They act like terrified heifers when cut away from the pack.
He now is dating a woman who did not have a pack and seems to stand on her own two feet pretty well.
Prob for the best.... :-) I married a smart, independent woman, and it's never, ever been boring.