[mumblypeg]

It’s not gumbo without okra, AFAIC.
Most people don’t like okra b/c it’s slimy from over cooking.
I always put the okra in last, about 5 minutes before serving.
Keeps it crunchy, not slimy.

[Original Lurker]

I’m with you on the okra bit.
Slime? It’s delicious and healthful! :-)