[gogeo]

And if we go the route of doing harm to their families, what make us any better than them?

I can think of many reasons. If you can't, you are a sad, sad person.

[JimRed]

I can think of many reasons*. If you can't, you are a sad, sad person.

*Reasons to do harm to their families.

So, doing evil to those who are victims of circumstance (having a son, brother, husband or father who is a member of the oppressive regime) is OK with you? I'd rethink that; we all have to answer to God someday. If that makes me "sad", so be it.