I too have a wife, two daughters and two granddaughters... And I don’t want to go there anymore than you do.
But when you think how many women go for the bad boy types even the abusive types, the irresponsible types, the ones that proudly carry signs that say “better a rapist than a racist” or dress like sluts, it makes you wonder as you search for objective explanations. Obviously just as not all man are sex fiends, neither are all women sluts, and I may be guilty of making it bigger than it is. I certainly hope so.
I think that too many of us think that the women out in the social settings, bars, dance halls, and such are the vast majority of women.
I’m not sure that is true. Some women like to socialize like that and many others prefer to socialize in small groups at their homes or at a restaurant, the movies and such.
So yes, you can find women like you address, but even then I’m not sure they want things you attribute to them. Yes women dress enticingly, but they don’t want nor should they be subject to physical abuse based on that.
If a woman is stark naked for some reason, that doesn’t give guys license. Well in one way it does, the guy should find some way to cover her, comfort her, and help her.
I’ve been in bars and dance places, and guys in there grab ass, and boobs. “Well, they’re here, so they know what their bargaining for!” That’s not true at all.
Guys can go out and not be abused. Women should be able to also.