Sad about the grand daughter but that was not what I was talking about. The controversy surrounding this was more sexual and personal (true or not). It had nothing to do with murder, fiancés or devilish aims.
For you to translate this ensuing situation not connected to my meaning (I followed up with Woody Allen similarity, BTW) with my personal family situation is insulting frankly.
You may choose to be insulted if it pleases you.
This is a public forum.
If you desire exclusivity in response, then you need to start your own blog. I have no reason to insult anyone here, why would I do that? If you are that sensitive to other’s responding in ways different than what you approve of, there are many other digital ways to create that.