Women have a lot to do with the feminization of men. Then they admire men who are not so conditioned. Weird how that works.
Not so weird. It's a test. Women desire an "Alpha male", not a wimp. A man who submits to female attempts to control him, is not an Alpha male.
Women do not seek to "feminize" men. They seek to stop non-Alphas from daring to think they have a chance with them. Many (most?) woman would rather share an Alpha male, than have to "settle" for a beta.