I am uninformed about Catholic Charities, but you make a compelling argument of how organized charities often hurt more than they help. The American people would never catch on though.
Caring for others needs to have a boundary. The boundary is defined by when the caring begins to aid in the death and destruction of your own. It is not a clear line, especially for the hyper-benevolent. But you know the line is crossed when death appears near and coming from the others you aid. Paris shows us the boundary clearly. At some point, our loving, Christian friends are close to becoming the enemy themselves.
Caring for others needs to have a boundary. The boundary is defined by when the caring begins to aid in the death and destruction of your own. It is not a clear line, especially for the hyper-benevolent. But you know the line is crossed when death appears near and coming from the others you aid. Paris shows us the boundary clearly. At some point, our loving, Christian friends are close to becoming the enemy themselves.