[Jamestown1630]

I don’t know why compromise couldn’t be reached. On the one hand, if I were serving an observant Jew, hospitality would indicate that I should make it kosher. No difference with Muslim guests.

But wine at the table doesn’t have to mean wine down a Muslim’s throat. They could just abstain.

-JT

[BitWielder1]

But wine at the table doesn't have to mean wine down a Muslimâ's throat. They could just abstain.

That's the rub. They demanded No Wine At The Table. No compromise.
Jews are more amenable to compromise, worst case they would politely decline, not demand changes to your menu.