A pastor talks about “Incredible sex”. He talks about focusing on the woman. And also talks about how destructive porn is, as well as pre-marital sex. He said most men don't have orgasm's anymore. Oh sure - they ejaculate - but not the orgasm with all of the associated release of endorphins, etc.
And, with porn you are training your body (like an athlete does) to a certain stimuli. But then when you are with an actual woman - you can't perform! (There is some medical term for it even!)
Pretty eye-opening. He doesn't do much preaching - it is more of a pyschological discussion. He spends time on helping the woman understand the needs of the man as well.
it is more of a pyschological discussion....That says BS right there.
The term is desensitized. Like watching violence in movies, video games, or TV a male CAN be become desensitized to violence. His hypothesis that males are subject to the same regarding sex is psycho-babble.
I call BS. Men are still horn-dogs from puberty to this modern day. A few decades of rhetoric have changed male physiology from 10's of thousands of years of male horniness? Really? Geeze, I'm 65 and still enjoy the "endorphins" that my Wife provides.
This is why I never follow "men of the cloth" regarding sexual or gender issues. They know nothing since they swear off the astounding beauty of the female form, but yet sometimes want to play with little boys. If the straight "pastors" truly appreciated the beauty of the woman body, they would never forfeit the enjoyment and endorphins and the calming affect that women provide men. Personally, I think they are all eunuchs.
If he wants to argue reduced ejaculate in older men, then he has a case. But no orgasm? What an astoundingly ignorant person he is. Wonder if he has ever experience the wonders of being inside a woman. There is no greater physical experience in life. This pastor is dumbass wrong.