The term is desensitized. Like watching violence in movies, video games, or TV a male CAN be become desensitized to violence. His hypothesis that males are subject to the same regarding sex is psycho-babble.
I call BS. Men are still horn-dogs from puberty to this modern day. A few decades of rhetoric have changed male physiology from 10's of thousands of years of male horniness? Really? Geeze, I'm 65 and still enjoy the "endorphins" that my Wife provides.
This is why I never follow "men of the cloth" regarding sexual or gender issues. They know nothing since they swear off the astounding beauty of the female form, but yet sometimes want to play with little boys. If the straight "pastors" truly appreciated the beauty of the woman body, they would never forfeit the enjoyment and endorphins and the calming affect that women provide men. Personally, I think they are all eunuchs.
If he wants to argue reduced ejaculate in older men, then he has a case. But no orgasm? What an astoundingly ignorant person he is. Wonder if he has ever experience the wonders of being inside a woman. There is no greater physical experience in life. This pastor is dumbass wrong.
If you give the video a listen he makes sense. And he IS saying that REAL sex with a woman that you love is FANTASTIC. It isn’t the fantasy sex of porn (or robots), or the memory of lustful sex as a youth.
Here’s an article from some other folks on the effects of long-time porn use and the effects on the brain and ED.
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/how-long-will-it-take
Of course most men are horn-dogs. But these people seem to make the case that training the body to react to certain thoughts and images take away the natural response to a real woman. And like drugs, one needs more and more, and kinkier and kinkier.
Although the pastor guy did mention guys he had helped that would pleasure themselves 2 to 7 times a day! (I’m surprised their eyes were still good enough to see the computer screen!)