A simple solution for bathrooms do exist. A man can pretend to be a woman, but he can not change his chromosomes.
Where are those bathrooms, and have the trannies sued, yet, to have them changed?
Or just “Got Y?” (That takes care of the odd cases too, they use the guys’ room.)
It is about validation, not accommodation. For the mentally ill man in a dress, a separate gender-neutral bathroom is not good enough.
He HAS to be in all the women’s stuff and recognized by women to be happy, from women’s employee groups to female bathrooms to female changing rooms to feminist women’s meetings. He wants to be one of the women badly, and barges into female spaces and women’s groups DEMANDING full rights because it is necessary to satisfy the demons / delusions.
A mentally ill man where I work was adamant, and horrifically offended, that I wouldn’t join him on a girls’ luncheon. I would use a different bathroom on the other side of the building than the one near our cubes he used. He would attend women’s engineering meetings and periodically took over, the mental illness and exhibitionism many of the LBGTA have combined into “look at me, validate me!” The company actually let go a black woman who called him out on “I know all about discrimination” when he said there are way more people like you than like me.
That said, after the plumbing was removed, I had no issues with it in the bathroom. There’s no male plumbing, just a mentally ill person.
But nothing is a greater violation of privacy than a mentally ill man with the male plumbing in the toilet stall, ready to confront YOU in the bathroom when you recoil at finding out it is there, yelling at you while you try to poop because you gave it a disapproving look when entering a stall, arguing for the right to use the gym shower along with the women (because modern privacy apparently includes abortion but not a naked dude next to you while you bathe).