I started out by making what I considered a playful remark, it certainly would not have bothered me had I been on the receiving end. You took at as some kind of insult and had you responded in a little more mature manner I probably would have apologized but you chose to respond in a very childish manner which prompted my response and you proceeded to more and more childish responses culminating in suggesting I should have said it to your face. That is absurd, we are not sitting in a bar, how was I supposed to say something to your face? Your whole routine is simply childish.
It wasn’t playful at all. It was condescending and snide.
Do unto others, as they say.
When someone says something to me that angers me, sometimes I respond in a polite manner. Other times I respond angrily.
You got the second type of response.
Had you initially spoken to me in an different manner, you would likely have gotten a different response.