And as for the cake, he probably threw it in the garbage, but not wanting to insult you he took it as a gift instead of a celebratory gesture which would have been against his beliefs. You, unknowingly of course, put him in a position where he had to take the least sinful way out........
No, this guy took it home and ate it. He was known for getting food from friends.
And his 3rd ( or 4th wife) at the time wasn’t a JW, and she told me how good the cake was.