A police officer ordering you out of your car is a lawful order that you are required to comply with. You can argue about whether it was justified and sue later, but you must comply.
She had a really bad attitude. Evidently, she may have had an arrest record. They mentioned a record, but didn’t say what it was for.
People act like the policeman killed her. She could have taken him to court if he didn’t follow procedure, but she chose to kill herself. Also interesting she spent 3 days in jail. Wouldn’t anyone in her family help pay her bond?