Pretty good idea at night if you hear a commotion involving your wife, even a cop might do that.
I would urge you to think carefully about these types of situations and spare your family the anguish of doing something they’ll all regret.
I forget, you are a cop that believes we peasants should "Stop, drop, and cower" when our masters command us.
As I said to another poster, if you want to prove you’re top dog at your home, just waltz on out there with a gun and yell at the officers. While you’re at it, wave the gun around as you yell at them.
That’ll show em!
I’d prefer you not do that for your own safety, but there’s no reasoning with you, so do as you think best.
Good luck with that.