If I think about eating you, does that make me a cannibal?
No.
The behavior is what earns the term.
Homosexuality is a behavior.
Homosexual rape is a crime. It is not what I was writing about and you know that.
You seek to obscure this issue because your reasoning is wrong.
The fact that you call homosexual behavior “gay” shows that you have an agenda to obfuscate homosexual behavior.
Your last statement is absurd.
Words have meaning. Homosexual means someone engaged in homosexual behavior.
According to the Oxford English Dictionary, my definition is the correct one:
For homosexual as a noun they have:
"A person who has a sexual propensity for his or her own sex; esp. one whose sexual desires are directed wholly or largely towards people of the same sex."