It’s the same point. The premise is that abstinence from sex, including for the unmarried, is bizarre and unreal.
Well, I’ve never been any good at irony.
Abstinence from sex is not necessarily ‘bizarre’ or ‘unreal’. For many people, that urge is sublimated into other channels: religion/spirituality, art, work.
And for others: they just haven’t found the right person! and they’re not going to waste themselves on wrong ones.
-JT