I was thinking something similar this morning as I read this article. A certain minority population seems to believe that "White" people are born with some sort of magic bean that gives them all kinds of privleges. The reality is that the way you live your life is the difference.
Get married, stay married, have children with your marriage partner, raise them together. This is the main divide. Yes, education and/or training is a great thing to do as well; but, a stable personal evironment makes one's life better.
They want what we have; but, refuse to do the things that will make that life possible. Just living next to my family is not going to do it.