Proverbs 32:7 spare the rod, spoil the wife. A disobedient wife has no one to blame but her husband, had he loved her he would have disciplined her, for the man that spares the rod on his wife, does not love her, but is trying to be her best friend instead of her lord and master.
If they are selling our front of the grocery store I go into the store, buy some of the keebler equivalents and flash the boxes to them as I walk on my way out of the store.
That really pisses them off