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>>>A “bohemian” gal i was friends with at my old told me when she was 37 “i hope i don’t end up an old maid”.<<<

I noticed when I was searching profiles many women in their late 30s had odd ideas about children. Such as, Yes, I want children and she was 40. Or, “I’m not sure.” Seriously, at 37 you are an old maid. The fertility clock runs out to near zero at 45. And it’s not looking that good at 37 either. And the really confusing thing to me what how picky the women sound when you read their profiles. They will always have cats to fall back on I guess.

lol. The funny thing is, in my family, i dont remember the last baby that was born to a woman under 40. Well, the least three were early 40s, then mid thirties.
THANK GOD’s greatness that there were no deformities or issues.
My own nightmare story is I worked day and night until 37, because i wanted ENOUGH MONEY for kids, house, fancy Car.
Ended up with brain injury at 37, ten years later, finally working again, fiance stayed, no kids and a cat.

I am a living testament to NOT WAITING to start your family!!!

I volunteer at boxing gyms and other places with kids.

And you are right about cats. He's my best buddy. I wanted kids so bad, but i blew it. But God would be angry if i pouted until i died.