Well, I guess I know what you think of me then. I think she’s bi-sexual. There is a continuum.
However, per my friend who is a lesbian and a psychologist,bisexuality is rare. Most are gay or straight from the gate IMO. As a child I observed a friend’s brother and my cousin. Both were different from a very young age. Too young to have “chosen”.
No. I didn’t say that everyone who will say that she must be a bi-sexual is a sodomite, I said that the sodomites will say that. There’s a difference.
And the reason they will say that (most of them) is because it will undermine their cries of civil rights oppression if they can’t claim that it’s an inborn characteristic.
I don’t know if it’s nature, nurture, or a combination. As a Bible-believing Christian, I believe that we are all born in sin. That doesn’t mean that society needs to be re-ordered to be accepting and “tolerant” of, for instance, pedophilia.
Too young to have “chosen”.
I also have have friend who is a psychologist. In her experience (40+ years) she has yet to counsel a homosexual who did not have underlying “issues” - be it abuse, a dysfunctional family structure, etc.
I would be interested to know if your your cousin or brother’s friend, were “naturally” attracted to the same sex - or because of their “differentness”, were they scorned, and bereft of friends and eventually befriended by a homosexual who “recruited” them?
I fear the real reason is sexual child abuse at esp. younger and alarming ages where the memories get buried deep. The memories get buried b/c the child feels guilt and assumes they did something wrong rather than assigning it to the true guilty party. It becomes a catch-22 where each succeeding generation has more abuse, guilt and wrong assumptions eventually leading to a society like Sodom where not even ‘5 good men were found’.