No. I didn’t say that everyone who will say that she must be a bi-sexual is a sodomite, I said that the sodomites will say that. There’s a difference.
And the reason they will say that (most of them) is because it will undermine their cries of civil rights oppression if they can’t claim that it’s an inborn characteristic.
I don’t know if it’s nature, nurture, or a combination. As a Bible-believing Christian, I believe that we are all born in sin. That doesn’t mean that society needs to be re-ordered to be accepting and “tolerant” of, for instance, pedophilia.
As a Christian I struggle with the instruction not to judge. If one is born with a predetermined orientation, as I believe, and they live a moral life within that context, I want to leave the issue to God.
That being said, personally I am against gay marriage but have no problem with gay civil unions.
I know many gays (and plenty of straights)live wildly immoral lives. They will have to be accountable for this one day I believe, and I know you do too.