it is a good read - I still don’t think a wedding cake is a hill to die on - but I respect the faith of those who think it is - and I think they should have that right.
Then you don't understand the fundamental, underlying issue here.
I’m reminded of a scene from C. S. Lewis’ The Last Battle, in which Shift the Ape explains to the poor creatures of Narnia why they’re being shipped off to the Calormene salt mines.
You think freedom means doing what you like, says Shift. Well, youre wrong. That isnt true freedom. True freedom means doing what I tell you.
Surrender this hill andbthey are only emboldened.
There has to be a line in the sand.