That is not what women say.
What is the red pill?
As dispensed on the so-called 'Manosphere.'
There are several distinct groups in the manosphere, and some degree of infighting.
The Christians who want women to become virtuous and feminine again, and want to return to traditional marriage, not pedestalization of women as effectively sinless, and all blame put on men;
The Pickup Artists, who cultivate narcissistic traits in order to have sex with many women;
The MGTOW ("men go their own way") crowd, who are hunkering down and devoting themselves to self-improvement and trades and crafts, rather than risk a relationship gone sour and false accusations of patrimony and/or divorce courts.
The best of the Christian sites is dalrock.wordpress.com, and the best of the other sites -- not a pickup artist -- is The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi, http://therationalmale.com/
Start from those: but it may take literally months or a year for some of this to sink in, and you will PROBABLY want to reject it lock stock and barrel, or you will get *very* angry internally.