So now you say she is lying, as too much like liberals, you cannot conceive of a Christian struggling to deal with Biblical conviction that they should not foster an immoral arrangement or life, while Christian love also wants the best for the person?
I have faced that often. For instance my former landlady took up separation from he husband (a nice man) and living with another man. I told them it was wrong, but would try to help them in ways i hoped did not infer sanction of their relationship. One time they asked me to help them move a new mattress to their house. And i wrongly did, but then said i was not going to take it upstairs.
I have had people ask me to fix their computer, while the reason it was infested with viruses was because of the immoral sites they visited. I want to help them, but probably should not, unless perhaps at least they promise me to stop using the PC for that purpose.
Well you were the one who assumed that she took her actions out of "love". That term is nowhere to be found in her letter to the parents of the kid. Just "Sorry I didn't tell you earlier that I refuse to see you" and "You're welcome in our office, just not to see me" and so on and so forth. And again I support her right to do so, as I support the right of the Oregon baker and the Washington florist to serve whatever clientele they choose. But I just can't grasp the concept of "I love you so much I refuse to have anything to do with you or your kid" that you seem to see in this whole affair.