You must not live on the east coast. I sold my 1800sf home in Michigan at a huge loss in 2010 for $136K ($50K less than I paid for it) and bought an older tract home at 12oo sf for $170K.
Really feels great to move back into an overprice starter home.
I understand the sentiment though. I flat out refuse to be house poor and have zero sympathy for them.
You fall into my category of what responsible people do. You stayed under $250,000.